Welcome to the wonderful, sometimes confusing, and always exciting world of sex. Those of us who are long past being kids have one set of issues. Elders tend to fall into two camps. Either you inwardly smile knowing that Grown-Up sex, like fine wine, just gets better and better with age, or you shrug your… Read More
One major goal of psychotherapy is learning to take control of one’s feelings and actions. An uncomfortable feeling is not an assault. It is a call for self exploration an opportunity for personal dialogue, not blame. Times may be changing. For many woman, so is an increase of victimhood and irresponsibility. Joe, Don’t apologize. Change… Read More
Biden Says He’s ‘Never’ Acted Inappropriately After Unwanted Kiss Allegation During his many years in public life, “not once ― never ― did I believe I acted inappropriately,” he said. What’s wrong with this picture? Pro Biden, Anti Biden, I don’t care. I care about women who don’t use their power appropriately and those men… Read More
I write about sex often. I do so because we live in a puritanical and prurient society where ease of knowledge and facts are not easily available and are often twisted. As a result many people have too few tools for intimacy. If one has never been educated or exposed to the essence of love… Read More
Anew view of of the second half of life. We’re still Rockin’. Myth go by the wayside. Cinderella’s truth. Menand Women are different.
Sex is our most primal form of communication. There are levels of sexual expertise. Become an expert. Cautious , careful, caring practice helps.
Erectile Difficulties Commonly Known As Erectile Dysfunction I prefer any word other than dysfunction. We are not robots, nor machines. All men sometimes have erections that don’t behave the way a man wishes. With added years, statistics are as high as 1 out of every 2 men over the age of 40 has periods of… Read More
Okay Guys, This One’s For You – Performance Power Customized I know guys like to cut to the chase. As many of you know, Sex for most men after 50 is different from the hormone-driven sex of their youth. Not necessarily worse or better, but like most things in life, surely different. Your trusty penis… Read More
Going green isn’t just limited to buying organic food. We all know that the fastest way to your lover’s heart is through their stomach. But did you know that organic can equal orgasmic? Since the beginning of time, sages have understood the erotic power of food. Romans fed their beloved with tantalizing and tempting grapes.… Read More
“Edison had his light bulb, Ford had his Model T, and Jan Vinzenz Krause has his spray-on condom. Inspired by the mechanics of a drive-through car wash, the German sexual-health educator designed a custom-fitting male contraceptive using liquid latex and some materials from a hardware store.” – Time Magazine I am delighted that someone is… Read More
It’s time to get patriotic fellas and start raising and “saluting your own flag.” A new study came out from Texas A&M University stating that watermelon is a natural form of Viagra. Scientists say watermelon has ingredients that deliver Viagra-like effects to the body’s blood vessels and may even increase libido. Dr. Bhimu Patil, director… Read More
That’s right, you heard me correctly. Adult sex movies featuring senior citizens. Japan is leading the way in this new industry, with senior porn stars who are in their 70’s. Historically, much of Japan’s popular pornography has featured very young girls, in their teens and 20’s. A teenager starring in porn movies is very upsetting… Read More
I’ve read “birds do it, bees do it, and even educated fleas do it.” Well, so do Upbeat Seniors. According to a ground breaking AARP study, individuals of all ages keep doing what comes naturally. The difference is, what once came naturally has changed forms. Sexual mechanics may have altered, but in their place, intimacy gets a… Read More
Contrary to popular belief, and perhaps to the dismay of our children who do not even want to think about it, or admit it, FiftyAndFurthermores are doing it. Yes, there is a difference in our sex lives now; it is not the same concept or the same mechanics of our youth. As I have often… Read More
Tantric sex is a method of intimacy that focuses on an increased spiritual awareness and erotic energy. It can be practiced alone, or with a lover. Think of Tantric Sex as a dance with no beginning and no end. There is no rush to the finish line; it is meditative, expressive, creative and intimate. Especially… Read More
Be honest – when you hear the phrase “Seniors Having Sex” your mind immediately jumps to hormone-driven teens. When you realize the conversation is about senior citizens, you gasp with disbelief. You think, they can’t really be having sex, can they? Here are the facts – HIV/AIDS is rapidly spreading among men and women over… Read More